Even though we can now do it online as well as off. Even though everybody seems to have a story, experience, and likes to share as much as they can. Even though there are blogs and tweets and the almighty Facebook is more or less built around it, none of our seeming insight or frequency of adult dating means we really know what’s going on with adult dating. Interpersonal interactions are as much a mystery today as they ever were and single people have no more of a clue how to get along dating then they ever did.
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Do you believe in love at first sight? According to some studies, men seem to evaluate their potential lovers very quickly. When they first meet someone for potential adult dating or casual sex, they decide within 15 minutes or less whether they want to see more of the person — that is both have them for more dates and have them in less clothes! First impressions mean a lot for both sexes though, because women only take slightly longer, deciding within the first few hours. We both want to impress in the first moments, coming off at our best.
We are sure you intend to be every bit a nice guy. All of us have the same needs when it boils down to it — we’re looking for sex and a little bit of intimacy, even if it’s just sharing in each others lusts and fantasies with our bodies from time to time. Yet how come one seems to have a habit of scaring off the objects of your lust? Has one ever been asked to leave a kink party or sex club? Had someone complain that one’s behavior was threatening? Maybe one has even heard directly, or indirectly through the grape vine that others find one creepy. What could be the cause of this, when one is never desiring to hurt another?
There are STDs and there are STDs. While no one wants to get a sexually transmitted disease barring a few messed up weirdos known as bug chasers, it is a fact of life that these infections are much more common then we think. In particular, HPV — the human papiloma virus — and HSV, or Herpes Simplex Virus, are incredibly common in the human population. Does the person with these conditions face a life time of loneliness and dread? To the contrary, sex is still possible and not out of reach even for those with a positive diagnosis.
HPV causes both genital warts and cervical changes in women depending on the strain. One boon from modern science to adult dating is the creation of a vaccine for the major strains of this disease. Although it is primarily marketed to teenagers, it may be possible for even adults to get vaccinated depending on their doctor’s advice and the needs of their life style. At any case, these diseases are both incredibly common and highly manageable, not worth losing sleep over as long as one is practicing safer sex.
At least one in four people in the population have exposure to the herpes simplex virus. This disease is considered a minor nuisance by many, though its first flare ups can be painful in many cases people carry it without any symptoms and any knowledge of it. Even many people who are tested regularly for more serious diseases like HIV or chlamydia are never routinely tested for herpes because it is not considered a serious threat to health or well being. It can easily be managed with either certain medications or by changes in diet and the use of supplements, particularly the amino acid L-Lysine. Those with this condition can have healthy and happy bedroom intimacies as long as they use protection and avoid sex during active out breaks. One can maintain the same partner for years with out ever infecting them.
Our favorite popular family band of the 1960’s said it best, dating is just as easy as 1-2-3, and they didn’t even have any Adult personals available on line back then to support their theory. Today we all have it ridiculously easy when we decide we want to hop on line to look for a hot date or someone to hookup with.
Dating used to be quite a bit harder than it is right now. Most of us were relegated to trying to meet someone at our school, someone at our work, or someone that was introduced to us through our well meaning, but often clueless, array of family and close friends. Sometimes these situations happened to work out well for us, but sometimes things did not go so well and we ended up on a disastrous blind date from hell for a few hours of our lives that we would never get back and we wondered what on earth our loved ones had been thinking when they matched us up.
Today we have a lot more control, a lot more options, and definitely tons more possibilities to choose from when we make use of the friendly, fabulous and free world wide web to access the personals and adult dating web sites in order to meet nice people for all sorts of things. There are so many web sites for us to choose from that we are bound to run across many possibilities almost immediately, and we can continue to search and narrow down our criteria until we have found the perfect person for ourselves. Whether it is friendship, companionship, romance or hot sex that we seek, we will not be disappointed, it is out there for us on the Internet, and it is just patiently waiting for us to find it.
1-2-3-, baby you and me. It just could not possibly get any easier for us.
The online world of Adult dating is a new and uncharted area for many of us. While it is really pretty easy for any one to successfully find and meet people using the Internet, there are just a few helpful basics that it would serve us well to keep in mind as we tread through the exotic and exciting waters of the adult entertainment and sex sites available on the world wide web.
When we are creating a profile for an adult dating site or for any other site on the Internet, we are representing and presenting ourselves to strangers out there in cyber world. We want to take a little bit of time and try to control those things that are easily fixed before we go live with our profile and avoid those things that can be a bit of a turn off to the prospective people and partners that we hope will be viewing us.
There is no excuse whatsoever in 2011 to have a ton of spelling errors in your profile. None. Every single program provides a spell check and it takes about 30 seconds to click on it and let it run through. There is also no excuse for poor presentation in your profile. The style of stream of consciousness and no capital letters worked well for James Joyce and e.e. cummings because they were poets and it was a statement and a style. There is no reason for any of us to have a profile that looks like a disaster area where a grammatical and punctuation bomb exploded, when there are plenty of programs, resources and examples available on the computer to help us avoid having a profile that looks like a wreck.
Just a few minutes well spent can give our profiles a nice, neat and attractive appearance that will help us to find and impress those perfect hot people that we seek.
The word adult is a funny thing. What exactly does it mean and when does it mean it? There’s no need to start an enhanced interrogation every time someone uses the word, but you would do well to pause for a moment. Is your friendly neighbor inviting you to an adult dinner party where Uncle Bob, Aunt Judy, and you and the other couple down the street are going to sit down to a homemade dinner without the distraction of the kids? Or will this be that other kind of adult dinner party with a plausible premise but winds up looking like a 70s swinger porno? You might want to find out for sure before you arrive and Aunt Judy wants to know why you’d wear short shorts with no underwear at the dinner table.
How about adult dating? Does that mean that you get to go to that nice Thai place in town rather than the burger joint? You’ll listen to James Taylor rather than Snow Patrol? No, most people know that adult dating means you actually want to get laid. And that would be different from teenage dating how?
It really is too bad that Adult Communities are only apartment complexes or neighborhoods where middle-aged and older people live without having to be bothered by those meddling kids. Their communities might sponsor special trips to a play or to the mall, and people pretty much do the homemaker thing. One could imagine a whole community of active, sexed-up, 55 and over adults who sunbathe naked in their yards and when they have a group meeting in the rec room, they really mean it. Now that would be a way to take early retirement.
Hopefully, you will never set out to learn about interesting ways for sex and wonder why the teacher is talking about physics. Check twice to make sure you adult education class will be teaching what you really want to know.
It all depends on the couple and the intimacy and strength of their relationship whether it will be a bonding experience or a breaking experience if they have strong political differences. The issue of politics can and often is a very divisive one, and not just over questions of tax policy. It is typically the issues of the day that have great importance to those particular people. It should be granted that it is often more impacting for those who are more vocal on their beliefs and that most or very many just keep them to themselves. If there is good strong communication skills established between them then their respective positions will eventually be known and discussed. There can be terrible arguments over issues but there can as well be a great respect for one another and a cementing, a strengthening of the relationship. This can and does affect the relationship as a whole, from how the couple relates to each other to the sex as well. It is something that more and more should be talked about and shared whenever couples meet. If you are single and looking in the adult dating world it may be helpful to list some of these differences on your profile if you should happen to join an online dating community sometime.
The reason being is that you could meet some hot sexy single that you really seem to mesh with a great deal and then once you are together you discover they have a political stance that is very opposite of your own. How will you deal with that? How will they? No one likes unpleasant surprises and it can leave one feeling angry, upset and down, to find one ambushed by an argument which suddenly sparked over something heard or seen. It may ruin your chances of getting laid as well as the possibilities of a great relationship. It is just important to be sure where one stands so that something doesn’t come along and hit you both between the eyes unexpectedly and cause division between you. You will have to work that much harder for common ground if you are not adequately prepared for it.
In the end politics and religion are supposed to be those subjects we arent supposed to discuss in polite company, least of all on a date or at least until partners are in bed!
Whenever you apply yourself with all your skill you are making an investment. This is an investment that will see that you are no longer single and looking on the scene. You will have set yourself up for success and improved your image and abilities as well. It can be a very rough and treacherous world on the adult dating scene. There will be many people out there who will use you for their own ends. This is perfectly fine if you are getting something of equal or lesser value in return. That is the only time you should allow yourself to be used, unless it is part of a larger plan. There are many different tactics and strategies you can use and these will continually hone your skills to a sharper and sharper edge. This will serve you well in surviving and prospering by landing you that person who is right for you. It may be that you just want a fuck buddy or you may want more.
Whatever it is you are looking for you must have the skills to acquire it. This does not mean that you are ruthless and dishonorable or hurtful to others in trying to get laid but rather you are wise to any tricks. You will have equipped yourself to fend off any crooked attacks and you will have made yourself a desirable sex partner. You want to be able to treat others as you would want to be treated, you want to be seen as an honorable player yet also perfectly capable of playing the dirty game with those who will use such tactics against you. You want to always be one step ahead and smarter than your opposition. You want to control the action and control the movement of the pieces on the board rather than being a pawn and used yourself. You can do this by studying others, determining their motives and determining their tactics. Once you have done this you can begin piecing larger and larger piece of the puzzle together. This will put you in the position to use those pieces for your ends as opposed to someone else and having the right pieces only makes for a better whole.
The proliferation of adult dating sites, has all single men and women wondering if the success stories can indeed be true. Are people truly finding dates, let alone their soul mates as often as advertised? It is logical to assume that the more people one culls through the better one’s possibility of finding some one, still there has to be work involved to get to a point of even a small amount of successful returns.
Being a member of a dating sites or social network for any period of time, certain facts become clear, the most apparent of which is what one puts out one gets back. The net is a benign place; it holds no prejudice, is not influenced all that much really by trends. The sparkling initial jolt one gets when singing on to a dating site can be easily dulled after a time of slight frustration when the difficulty of finding someone dwindles and the culling through face upon face gets to be a little tiresome. It truly can be a lot of work to maintain a positive attitude after a time, even if one does see some initial interest. One must be ever vigilant playing in a pond as big as the internet and being only one of a million fishes swimming up stream for a connection, dates or some sex.
If one really wants to increase their chances on these on-line sites or at the very least feel they are working towards increasing them, all negativity should be filtered out of our on-line profile. We should present the world a happy, upbeat persona even if one doesnt feel particularly happy, peppy or gay. Rejections should roll Jesus-like off us as we turn the other cheek, we should be moving forever forward in what we are hoping for and we should always be hoping. The words we use on our profile should always reveal a bright view of the world, sarcasm and sassiness have their place but they do not come across well in print unless you happen to write like Mark Twain and nobody writes like Mark Twain expect for Mark Twain! Everyone who reads a profile has most likely written one and we all know nothing is a rosy as we can describe, the time for the meat and potatoes of what our lives are about, our sexual kinks and hang-ups and our dim and distant, often times disturbing paths, can be served up later, during any date we wish. A positive profile we help get that date!