We might watch porn trying to pick-up some pointers, we might even feel we have had enough experience and can boast lovers who will brag about us, but when it comes to sex, nobody has a clue what they are doing? Read the rest of this entry »
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Even when we don’t mean to be, any one of us can be a sneaky little bugger when it comes to our partner in adult dating. Latch on to a nugget of information you want to mine, start to ruminate across some unanswered question about your lover or worse of all, begin to consider really where this current adult dating of yours might be leading the pea in the mattress annoyance will cause you to twist and turn mentally until you get your answers. Read the rest of this entry »
One of the most endearing qualities of human beings is our ability to be completely and totally distracted by the prospect of Sex of any kind, despite what may be going on around us. It seems that lust and sexual attraction always hold the trump cards in the game whatever the rest of the hand happens to be.
Many of us spend most of our days trying to make a living and keep up with our many expenses, obligations and responsibilities. We try to remain focused and efficient and accomplish as much as we possibly can each day with the time and the resources that we have available to us. We attend time management classes in order to improve our productivity, management skills, and ability to delegate properly. We try to bundle tasks together to decrease the time it will take us to run our errands and we are always aware of the time we have spent, and the time we will need to spend to try to meet all the depends that weigh so heavily upon us at every moment.
The good news is that we are very sincere and diligent in our efforts to be efficient. The bad news is that as soon as the thought of sex enters our minds for even a second, our efficient little train is completely de-railed and we become preoccupied, distracted and decidedly inefficient. The best thing to do when this happens to us is to hop right on to the ready and waiting Internet and check out all the sites for adult personals and adult entertainment. The faster we get in there and find what we need, the faster we can get back to doing whatever is was that we were supposed to be doing in the first place.
Staying focused can be a hard, uphill battle, and just like the house in a casino, lust always wins.
Though they might be made these days with a higher aesthetic in mind-and cost more because of it-the way anyone of us judge quality in adult toys is how well they work when they are ultimately used. Regardless of how a Pyrex dildo might resemble a modern-day sculpture and how much a couple might be prompted to display it on their mantle, the simple truth is, any sex toy is made to be used and the only way to judge its worth is in the using.
What usually prompts adult toy manufacturers is criticism from their buyers. People no longer wanted to be tethered by chords or batteries with a small shelf life so adult toy makers availed themselves of better battery technology and began including re-charable abilities with their vibrators. Consumers began to hear reports about specific materials being harmful, sex toy makers made sure their products were not made of these materials any longer. Clit stimulators and prostate massagers began to get more press, better ones began to be made. In no other industry is there such a symbiotic relationship between consumer and maker and this is mainly because there is no other way to judge an adult product then to use it. A car maker might introduce a sleek new design that sells only because it is a sleek new design and fashion comes and goes to nobodys whim, but adult toys proof is in their pudding, in their use.
In the end, a vibrator is only as good as its vibrating, a cock ring only affective if placed on around a cock; it is the old use-it-or-lose-it philosophy when it comes to our sex toys. How sleek they look, how well the batteries recharge or what they are made of really only concerns us in light of their effectiveness. One can own the very best, top-of-the-line intimate massage device, with a price tag to go with its reputation, but if it doesnt help one masturbate more effectively than a cheaper everyday Rabbit vibrator what good is the more expensive model? All manner of advertising on adult singles niche sites wont really increase sales of an adult toy maker unless the toys advertised do the trick to get people off.
Like very few products we buy, our sex toys really have to deliver.