There are STDs and there are STDs. While no one wants to get a sexually transmitted disease barring a few messed up weirdos known as bug chasers, it is a fact of life that these infections are much more common then we think. In particular, HPV — the human papiloma virus — and HSV, or Herpes Simplex Virus, are incredibly common in the human population. Does the person with these conditions face a life time of loneliness and dread? To the contrary, sex is still possible and not out of reach even for those with a positive diagnosis.
HPV causes both genital warts and cervical changes in women depending on the strain. One boon from modern science to adult dating is the creation of a vaccine for the major strains of this disease. Although it is primarily marketed to teenagers, it may be possible for even adults to get vaccinated depending on their doctor’s advice and the needs of their life style. At any case, these diseases are both incredibly common and highly manageable, not worth losing sleep over as long as one is practicing safer sex.
At least one in four people in the population have exposure to the herpes simplex virus. This disease is considered a minor nuisance by many, though its first flare ups can be painful in many cases people carry it without any symptoms and any knowledge of it. Even many people who are tested regularly for more serious diseases like HIV or chlamydia are never routinely tested for herpes because it is not considered a serious threat to health or well being. It can easily be managed with either certain medications or by changes in diet and the use of supplements, particularly the amino acid L-Lysine. Those with this condition can have healthy and happy bedroom intimacies as long as they use protection and avoid sex during active out breaks. One can maintain the same partner for years with out ever infecting them.
