Archive for February, 2011

Casual Sex Considerations Pt. 1

Adult Dating, Casual Sex, Online Dating, Sex, Sex Dating | Posted by Kaye
Feb 16 2011

The differences between traditional online dating tips and those catered towards casual sex seekers are often entirely different. While one side is interested in finding love and commitment, the other is more interested in finding someone who can blow their socks off in the bedroom and then fuck off as if nothing happened. With that in mind, don’t think you can simply go to Cosmopolitan or Men’s Health for your fix of adult dating oriented tips. Below, I’ll highlight some valuable pieces of information to have for those who are looking to have sex with no strings attached.

1. A Phone Number Is Not Indicative Of Something More – Imagine the following scenario: You met a fellow casual sex enthusiast through an adult dating site and proceed to meet them for a night of wild sex. Once all is said and done they give you their phone number. Now, before thinking that this has suddenly escalated into a possible relationship, know that your partner is probably just looking to do it again. The unspoken rule of no strings attached remains the same. Don’t act like a fool and assume deep feelings are brewing. That is most probably not the case.

2. Kissing Is Not Mandatory – If you’re looking for a sex partner in order to satisfy your craving for say, anal, don’t think that kissing is mandatory. Sure, you’re fucking, but that doesn’t mean you’re dealing with a significant-other. If your partner goes in for a kiss and you’re comfortable with kissing back, then by all means, go ahead. Just don’t lean in for a smooch goodbye just because you two just had sex. Your initial arrangement should speak for itself. A simple wave or hug is more than enough. They don’t call it “casual” for no reason.

3. Contact Times Should Be Made Clear - If you’re not comfortable with the possibility of receiving horny late-night calls, make that clear to your fuck buddies. Being that this is a pretty common occurrence within members of adult dating groups, establishing certain ground rules will keep you from being overly frustrated.

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Escape A Bad Date

Adult Dating, Casual Sex, Online Dating | Posted by Kaye
Feb 12 2011

If you’ve had enough experience in the world of adult dating and casual sex, you’ll know that we occasionally find ourselves stuck with a “bad situation”. Your date might be drunk, high, or not quite as attractive as you may have thought. But whatever the case, once you’ve already taken the plunge and mistakenly agreed to meeting with them, getting out of it could prove itself to be a lot harder than previously anticipated. For starters, what could one possibly say to leave before getting the deed done? After the cliche “emergency” excuse has run its course, consider any of the following alternatives for getting out of there as fast as possible. And next time, try to pay more attention to what you’re getting yourself into.

1. Bring Out You Inner Geek – After taking one look at your choice for casual sex, you quickly realize that she’s not something you’re willing to tap into. So what’s a man to do? Bring out your inner geek and go on a ramble about Star Trek or your love for anime. If she brings up sex, keep changing the subject until you bore her to death with your Spok talk. She’ll get the hint eventually.

2. Start Crying – One of the fastest ways of getting your ‘mistake’ to leave the premises is by bawling your eyes out. Tell her you resorted to online dating as a way to help you get over your ex but that you now realize you love her too much to go through with it. You can then put on your best act and attempt to shed a few fake tear droplets. Trust me, she’ll want to leave sooner rather than later. If she tries to be a pal by talking you through it, say that you’d rather be alone and that it’s best if she just took of.

3. Bring Up A Controversial Topic – Want to piss her off enough to get her to leave? Chose from any of the following controversial topics: religion, political stance or eating habits. Sure, you might run the risk of getting a slap to the face, but she’ll certainly not want to fuck you after being insulted.

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Why Being Being Single Is So Grand

Adult Dating, Casual Sex | Posted by Kaye
Feb 07 2011

While it may sound ridiculous to talk about break-ups with those of you who are looking for adult dating tips, read on to know exactly why I’m doing this. While many of you have most probably experienced a hard breakup in the past, all that heartbreak can often lead us to forget about all the good aspects of being single. And if you’re looking for casual sex, you’re already in the right mindset. Read on for a list of a couple of other factors that will leave you celebrating your single status in all its glory.

1. Sleeping Alone – If you ask me, cuddling is way overhyped. Why share your lovely king size bed with someone when you can spread out, snore and drool all you want? Another bonus is that you won’t be woken up in the morning or have to tip toe into the bedroom when your significant-other is already asleep.

2. Preserved Feelings – One of the best aspects of lacking a plus one is not having to deal with hurt feelings, nagging and emotions in general. When all of your coupled buddies stress over their strained relationships, you can rest easy knowing that you don’t owe anybody any explanation as to why got home so late. Freedom at its best.

3. A Social Life – Most couples get into the habit of staying in a little too often. However, there are only so many movie nights you can have before your friends forget about you entirely. Being single allows you to hang out with your friends as much as your little heart desires. No need to ask for permission or be nagged over your lack of attention.

4. Casual Sex – While it’s pretty safe to say that most people reading this blog are already well aware of the benefits behind casual sex, allow me to add in a few more. Sex + no strings attached = bliss.

5. Being A Slob – While I’m not encouraging you to do it all the time, being single means that you no longer have to worry about sitting at home wearing sweats while eating chips with a bottle wine. Hell, you can even walk around naked if you’d like. Now that’s fine living.

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Breaking All The Rules

Adult Dating, Dating, Sex, Sex Dating | Posted by Kaye
Feb 02 2011

The mastermind behind adult dating abc – yours truly – is always looking for new ways to enlighten people on the pros behind thinking with your head over your heart. Given all of the bad sex and relationship advice out there (I’m talking to you Cosmopolitan!), it certainly won’t hurt to provide you with a good dose of honesty and real-life advice. After all, what most of these sex dating experts fail to realize, is that we don’t live in a fantasy world where everything is black or white. Catering specifically to the ladies, read on for a list of rules that you should consider breaking.

1. Always Look Your Best – While I’m not discarding the concept of primping altogether, women shouldn’t feel obliged to constantly have their hair and makeup in perfect order. When that’s the case, you’ll come across as shallow and uptight. Plus, you should know that men prefer natural beauties. Leave the heavy makeup to the “ladies” from The Jersey Shore.

2. Wait For The Man To Make The First Move – Whoever said this definitely has a thing or two to learn about the dynamics between men and women. Ask any man and they will tell you that they love it when a woman has the courage to approach them first. There is nothing hotter than a woman with confidence and control.

3. Always Act Like A Lady – Who says women must always be prim and proper? Every once in awhile, feel free to let your hair down and act like a so-called “tom boy”. Not only is there nothing wrong with that, but it will prove to others that you have no problems with letting down your guard and having some fun in the process.

4. Don’t Act Like A Whore – Yet another contradicting “rule”, this one should most-definitely be broken when sex is concerned. No man wants to sleep with a prude. The dirtier you can get in the bedroom, the better.

5. Wax, Everywhere – At some point in time, someone decided to ban the existence of all types of body hair. Suddenly, women everywhere were rushing to their local salon to get brazilians and wax just about any part of their body that contained even the smallest traces of hair. Know that not all men like their sex partners to resemble a pre pubescent teen.

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