Archive for November, 2010

Masturbation and Adult Dating

Adult Dating, Sex, Sex Dating | Posted by Kaye
Nov 30 2010

Every guy needs to know how to make adult dating fun, and it’s good from time to time to add a little variation. There is no such thing as too much of a good thing, and you always want to keep your alone time fresh and exciting – so why not try masturbating while you flip through the sex personals?

The stranger is one of the most famous techniques when it comes to masturbation. It has earned its reputation. However, one of the draw backs it that it’s a solo activity. It’s always more fun to have an attractive personal to help guide you to climax. So you’re tricking your cock into thinking a vagina is around, and the great thing about the stranger technique is that you’re taking that trickery to the next level. Sit on your hand until it’s numb, once you’ve lost feeling in your hand feel free to play with your member. It’ll feel like someone else is jerking you off!

The act of masturbation is basically penetrating a pussy, except you’re having sex with yourself. The hand made vagina is stimulation that never ends! It’s pretty self explanatory, you make a fist with one hand and slide it down the cock. When the head of your penis is visual, side the other hand down. Continue this endless experience until desired results are achieved.

This next technique involves your stomach and one of your hands, it’s actually quite easy. Think about making a sandwich, your hands are the bread, and you’re completing the sandwich with some hot deli sausage. Rub your hands against your cock to create friction, remember to keep some napkins close by. You don’t want this orgasmic sandwich to turn into a sloppy Joe.

I like to call this one the Rosy Palms, this is another fun way to jerk your member off. It’s quiet simple, grip the cock with one and and rub the head with the palm of the other. You want to ensure that you don’t have any callouses otherwise it may feel like you’re rubbing sandpaper back and forth your cock!

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Faking the O

Adult Dating, Dating, Sex, Sex Dating | Posted by Kaye
Nov 25 2010

Women have been doing this for years and can get away with it easily – I mean it’s not just since the advent of sex dating that women need to get out of a bad lay. However, lately doctors have been noticing an increased number of men who suffer from delayed ejaculation which they than feel obligated to fake an orgasm. This sensational experience is as psychological as it is physical. It’s a good idea to talk to your partner because it can help increase her orgasm’s and take your sexual relationship to a whole new level.

There is a term used which is called “umbrella” and it describes everything from taking a longer time to reach climax to not being able to reach an orgasm. Some may not understand the extent of this problem, when many think of fake orgasms, women acting out a climax comes to mind. However, a recent study shows that 30 per cent of men have admitted to faking an orgasm at least once.

When women fake an O it’s usually because the man she’s with can’t get her off and she doesn’t want to hurt his ego, and some men think the same way. It can be even more damaging to a woman’s confidence to know that her partner can’t climax. It’s been drilled into everyone woman’s head that a man should be able to blow at any given time, but we all know this isn’t true and this is why it’s important to know how to fake an orgasm. Sure, it may be easier for a guy to climax over a woman, but there are some situations where it can be difficult due to stress, over-masturbation or the rapid increase of pornography. Women have the ability to have multiple orgasms, but most men can only have one or two before all their energy is drained. If a guy has sex three times in one night, masturbates during the day or drinks too much alcohol it could prevent any O from occurring.

If you’re going to fake an orgasm with your partner it’s important that you wear a condom, it is possible to be done without one but it becomes more complicated and it’s just another benefit of having safe sex. Never overact your fake climax, you have to make it like a real one as much as possible. Never over do the loud moans, facial expressions or anything out of your usual character while climaxing. If you plan on fooling her make sure you’re not facing her because everyone makes a distinctive face during climax. Always trash the condom directly after pulling out and never deviate from your normal routine–If you cuddle do so unless you want to create suspicion.

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Sex and Alcohol

Adult Dating, Sex | Posted by Kaye
Nov 18 2010

There are many substances that are known to increase sexual desires and enhance sexual intercourse. Alcohol is the oldest sex drive juice around and is one of the most widely used substances. To be severely intoxicated it just disgusting, but to pretend that you’re drunk can sometimes help any bad behaviors or movement during sex.

When people drink alcohol it reduces any anxiety adults have and allows them to release any self conscious emotions. Having a couple of drinks at a social gathering helps men get over any shyness and makes it easier to approach women. This works well for men who fear rejection or those who experience performance anxiety. You should never use alcohol as your crutch when it comes to adult dating, but it’s not an issue if you have a little bit to loosen up.

Alcohol changes the mood of the room, it takes away any nervousness and leaves room for any sexual expression. Regardless if you’re in a relationship, looking for a one-night-stand or to spice things up have a drink or two to drop the nerves. The barriers that some wouldn’t cross normally are down, and if you drink responsibly alcohol can make sex a lot of fun.

Drinking alcohol can be fun, it allows you to loose up and have a good time with people regardless if you’ve known them for 5 years or 5 minutes. But you need to be careful how much you consume. Half a gram of pure alcohol per 2 pounds of body weight is the maximum recommended amount, after that it could reduce someones feelings on sexual encounters. Each persons sex drive is effected differently by the amount of alcohol consumed and the size of the individual. No your limit and stay within it.

You never want to drink too much, hit on a girl thinking that she’s interesting in banging you, when its the complete opposite. This can lead to some serious consequences, and goes well beyond impotence or lack of performance. Too much booze can make some men more aggressive to women.

Alcohol doesn’t only affect men, it sets the mood for women. A study conducted in 1994 that alcohol can increase levels of libido in women and increases the testosterone levels which tempts women who lack sexual interest to want it. Different types of alcohol don’t all have the same effect as each other though. Give your date wine–It’s said to promote lovemaking especially when served with strawberries.

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Sexting Etiquette

Adult Dating, Dating, Sex | Posted by Kaye
Nov 09 2010

When it comes to text messaging you need to be careful what you say to people and who you’re saying it to. People all around the world have started to sext personals they’re interested in. You need to watch that these woman aren’t giving you the wrong idea because it could nail you in some serious trouble. Before you snap a picture of your cock or tell a girl you’re pursuing how you want to be deep inside of her it’s important to find out what she’s thinking and how she’ll react to your messages. To avoid your own sexting scandal there is some rules that you should abide by.

1. Never send something you wouldn’t say: Texting has given all of us more courage and has allowed us to become more bold when it comes to our conversations. However, if you wouldn’t say something out loud to the girl you’re dating you probably shouldn’t say it. Hiding behind technology has tempted people to let loose and sext their wildest fantasies, but you need to use a little discretion. You must remember sending an instant message or e-mail is leaving a footprint that could come back and bite you in the ass. Even things that are said in the bedroom sometimes should never be put in writing.

2. Don’t give unwanted sexts: Just like you would assess how a woman feels about you, you need to determine how she’ll feel about your dirty messages before you start sending them out. She gave you her number for a reason, this doesn’t give you the right to cyber with her during your first conversation. Start off by flirting and see where that goes. It’s best to sext someone who you’ve actually had sex with–It’s safe to say once the two of you have done the deed she’d be happy to get a steamy text from you to relive the moment.

3. Text rather than JPG: You will be more successful if you sext a girl with words rather than sending her a picture of your penis. A woman’s sexual imagination is large and by telling her what you’re going to do to her will get her more aroused than staring at a picture of your genitals. Communicate with each other about what you’d like to do in private. Let her imagination run wild and save the images for in person. We all know that men get aroused by visuals and a picture of a pair of tits will get you hard, but for women a dick shot won’t. If you want to send a picture, sending a sexy body shot will do the trick.

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